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Tuesday, May 09, 2006
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Nabaling ang usapan, sa hindi maintindihang dahilan, sa mga ex. The tale of the ex. of course, one of the biggest problems when entering a new relationship is the ex. suddenly one is struck by lightning that even the name of the ex may or may nor trigger a certain queasyness that may or may not cause you to throw up all of a sudden. like it or not, unless you're entering a relationship for the first time (yeah, right. feeling virginal.) the ex is someone both has to contend with, even of the relationship is long gone.ni hindi nga kailangan na ex-boyfriend o ex-girlfriend ng kalaban mo. pwedeng kahit anong ex - ex-bestfriend, ex-classmate, ex-schoolmate, ex-roomate, ex-officemate, ex-friend, ex-enemy, ex-pet, ex-hobby, ex-convict, ex-bisyo, ex-buddy, ex-fucking buddy, ex-kissing friend, ex-friendster, ex-barkada, ex-men, ex-woman, ex-cetera, ex-cetera. ang mahalaga lang naman sa tunggaliang ito ay dalawang titik: ex = ang nakaraan. gaano ka ka-handang tanggapin ang nakaraan ng isang tao?

They say those who fail to look into the past, look forward into failure. babagsak ka kung hindi mo ito pag-aaralan, ang kasaysayan na lang ang mgsasabi sa iyo niyan. pagdating sa mga bagay na may kinalaman sa relasyon, masasabing kalaban mo ang nakaraan. kalaban mo ang lahat ng katangin ng kanyang nakaraan, lahat ng bahagi nito, lahat ng pagkakamali nito dahil higit pa sa lahat, ikaw ang kanyang ngayon. ikaw ngayon ang lahat ng hindi katulad ng dati, at pareho ninyong mas gustong maging hindi katulad ng dati. sabi nga, "iba na ngayon". (kung tutuusin, ilan nga bang "ngayon" ang lagi nating sinasabing "iba"?)

Gaano ka ka-handang harapin ang ex ng iyong girlfriend, gaano siya kahandang harapin ang ex mo? tanong: hindi kaya sa sa pagpapakilala ng mga ex ay lalo lang kayong mapapamahal sa isa't isa o kabaliktaran kaya? doesn't it feel like, when you drag your ex into your present, it's like letting space for your past in you and your present's future?

Kung buong puso ninyong matatanggap ang mga ex ng isa't isa, mas lalo ninyo lang naman mapapatunayan na hindi lang taong kaharap mo ang minahal mo kundi ang buo niyang kaluluwa (past lives included!). kung sa tao din lang, libog lang yan, init na lumulipas sa minutong mabanyusan ng konting laman. kung lahat pwede mong lulunin sa nakaraan niya, at kahit na ano pang sabihin nilang nangyari noon, magaling ka. marunong ka ngang magmahal. but of course, all ex-es should ba taken with a grain of salt. remember, everyone doesn't love a martyr. hehehe.simple lang yan: ng unang hakbang: pag-usapan ang ex. kung naiilang ka, hmm... i smell issues. kung okay lang, wala ka namang dapat ika-takot di ba?

thoughts of paolo @ 2:08 PM
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Paolo Despabiladeras Ramos


About Me:
First of all I would like to thank you for checkin me out, being my "blogspot" buddy and leaving COMMENTS. *hahaha* I really do appreciate that. Okay, now my name is Paolo, Im 16 years old, Medical Technology student. I am VERY friend and family oriented, blah blah blah..

I am a simple boi, but most people who know me might say I am materialistic, because I buy really expensive (useless) objects. I guess you can say I do it just to get me thru my lonely days. I love to laugh (its like the best thing anyone can do in my opinion), hang with people I feel comfortable with and do the usual things that most like to do.

I don't smoke, do drugs and I don't want getting drunk on occasion. I don't like when people throw their lives away by doing dumb things that physically and mentally hurt them... those are the people who tear their families apart, hate life everyday and dont care about the opinions of the people who really care for them (not realizing they NEVER only affect themselves). I must say, I believe in choice, so if u r one of those peeps, I wont judge you or treat you differently.

Life is WAY too short to live with hate or grudges, just laugh them all away, think about it, is it really gonna matter in 100 years? Life is a carnival; there is never going to be a permanent high. With good morals, a light heart and faith in yourself you can do whatever you want. So start over again, talk to the peeps you said you would never even look at again, get close with family and friends and most importantly, be yourself and watch everyone flock to you.

Im not saying Im always peaches n crme, cuz Im not. I make mistakes everyday, have bad days, get depressed and am confused all the time, but I am human (and damn proud of it!). Im open to talk to anyone. I speak my mind (and if u get a compliment frm me, jst knw its true cuz dont like to lie)

Hobbies and Interests:
Music, Fashion, Computers, Badminton, Clothes, Movies, Politics, Events, Blogs, Ideas, Internet, Entertainment, Gadgets, Photography, Technology, Polo, Graphic Designing, Downloading, Kewl stuff

Favorite Movies:
Troy, Harry Potter, Mulan, Serendipity, Texas Chainsaw Massacre, The Grudge, Braveheart, The Mexican, Underworld, Alexander, The League of Extraordinary People, Disney Fairy Tale Classics, Starwars, X-Men, Finding Nemo, Moulin Rouge, The Cell, The Ring, American Beauty, Vanilla Sky, Velvet Goldmine, Don't say a word, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Anatomy, Phantom of the Opera, The Experiment, Amityville Horror, Cast Away, Mr. and Mrs. Smith, 40 Year-old Virgin, Vanity Fair, Mission Impossible, Etc.., Etc...

Favorite Books:
Da Vinci Code, Bob Ong's

Favorite Music:
OPM, Acoustics, RnB, Oldies but goodies, Sentimental, Alternative, Brownian Revival, Orange and Lemons, Rivermaya, Side A, Incubus, South Border, Hale, Will Young, Christian Bautista, Josh Groban, Nyoy Volante, Stephen Speaks

Favorite TV Shows:
Mirmo, Inuyasha, My Girl, Game KNB?, ASAP '06

Who I Want to Meet:
Friends and potential lovers of course.. hahaha! ;) My friends say that I'm picky. That, I'd definitely have to agree with. I want someone that I'm attracted to of course, but not attracted JUST to their appearance and at the expense of sounding really cliche, someone I'm attracted to who they are and what they have on the inside. It's not what you have on the outside that matters to me the most. I want someone to spoil with my emotional support. Someone that wants a happy relationship. I want other's to look at us and be like "they are so happy together, why can't we be like that?" that's hot. Also, someone who will give me attention, someone who wants to be together as much as our schedules allow. I want someone to wake up to in the morning that puts a smile on my face and gives me that extra boost to start my day.

As for me, I'm the type of guy who will hold you when you're crying and wipe away your tears. I'm the guy who is content to just be able to hold you and wants nothing more. I'm the guy who's perfectly happy with staying in and watching movies and cuddling. I'm the guy who will text you and tell you "I miss you and wish you were here" just because. I'm the guy who kisses you on the forehead. I'm the guy who will hold you while we watch the sunset and make sure you know you're the most precious thing in my life. I'm the type of guy that will bring happiness into my and your world no matter the circumstances. You'll never feel so loved in your life and that's for sure. I will go beyond means to make you happy just to see that beautiful smile of yours.

To me, there's nothing better in life than knowing your partner appreciates you as much as you appreciate them. Feeling loved and being in love is one of life's greatest blessings, you can label me as a hopeless romantic. I love doing things for people (especially people I'm interested in romantically). I can get pretty creative too. To me, the most important thing in life you can ever give someone is TIME, because it's something you cant control and have very little of. I just hope one day I can find that one person that I can give my time to.

I want someone that has goals in life, and isn't afraid to go for them, someone that actually deserves the love and effort I put forth in a relationship, someone that I can be in love with, and be loved by, I know that finding love in "my world" is difficulty if not nearly impossible, but I'd like to think that their is someone for everyone, and that one of these days someone will come up to me, and all we have to do is look into each others eyes, and just smile, because we won't have to say anything, we'll just know, because we'll feel it, I want to find that someone that I can connect with deeply, emotionally and physically, someone that is willing to be my soul mate and my best friend...

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